Curang

Kecurangan (kata dasar: curang) atau keselingkuhan/perselingkuhan (kata dasar: selingkuh [sĕ-ling-kuh][1]) difahamkan sebagai tindakan melanggar persetiaan hubungan emosi atau seks yang terjalin bersama pasangan secara khusus atau eksklusif sesama mereka[2] tanpa rasa jujur si pelaku kepada pasangan tersebut[3]:maksud I sehingga mengakibatkan perasaan marah, cemburu, dan persaingan.[4]

Kesan dampak

Secara emosi

Keterlibatan seseorang dalam mengkhianati hubungan intim dengan pasangan boleh mendatangkan seberapa kesan mendalam apabila kegiatan tersebut diketahui:[5]

  • Rasa malu muncul sebagai akibat perasaan terhina dan direndahkan, malah menyangka diri sebagai penyebab pencurangan lalu meningkatnya kemungkinan mencari-cari kesalahan dalam diri sendiri tanpa disedari.
  • Kebuntuan fikiran kerana menghadapi situasi yang menjejaskan keutuhan hubungan yang terjalin sesama diri
  • Kekesalan yang muncul berikutan rasa kecewa diri terhadap ketidaksetiaan pasangan sampai melakukan tindakan curang sedemikian

Aspek undang-undang

Tindakan pencurangan yang disaksikan pasangan atau orang kenalan mampu memberi kesan utama kepada penelitian dan pemberian keputusan dalam mengurus kes-kes cerai termasuk pampasan harta warisan, penjagaan anak-anak hasil hubungan bersama, kelayakan mendapat alimoni dan sebagainya.

Pandangan mengikut agama

Agama Islam

Agama Kristian

Mazhab Katolik
Mazhab Protestan

Lihat juga

  • Dayus
  • Perempuan simpanan
  • Penggodaan
  • Kegasangan
  • Seks luar nikah
  • Zina

Nota

  1. ^ "'selingkuh' - Maklumat Kata". Pusat Rujukan Persuratan Melayu. Dewan Bahasa dan Pustaka Malaysia. Dicapai pada 14 Januari 2020.
  2. ^ Weeks, Gerald R; Gambescia, Nancy; Jenkins, Robert E (2003). Treating Infidelity: Therapeutic Dilemmas and Effective Strategies. New York: W.W. Norton & Co. m/s. ix. ISBN 978-0-393-70388-7. OCLC 52838917.CS1 maint: ref=harv (link)
  3. ^ "'curang' - Maklumat Kata". Pusat Rujukan Persuratan Melayu. Dewan Bahasa dan Pustaka Malaysia. Dicapai pada 14 Januari 2020.
  4. ^ "Effects of sex, sexual orientation, infidelity expectations, and love on distress related to emotional and sexual infidelity". Journal of Marital and Family Therapy. 40 (1): 68–91. 2012. doi:10.1111/j.1752-0606.2012.00331.x. PMID 25059413.
  5. ^ Merdeka. Emosi Akibat Perselingkuhan

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